by Rizi Xavier Timane, PhD (2013)
Rating: 4.2 stars from 25 customer reviews
Rizi Xavier Timane, PhD, ASW, is a Nigerian-born transgender Life Coach, minister and certified grief counselor residing in Los Angeles, California. He is also a singer/songwriter and an actor who uses his music and movie productions as an outlet to promote Transgender inclusion, equality and affirmation.
Rizi grew up in an extremely religious traditional Christian home in Africa and was subjected to multiple exorcisms and other reparative attempts by his family and the church to ‚Äúpray the gay/trans away.‚ÄĚ An Unspoken Compromise takes you through his journey of self-discovery and spiritual exploration including:
Coming out as a trans boy at eight years old
Identifying as a lesbian in homophobic Africa
Transitioning while facing societal and family rejection
The religious persecution and bullying he has suffered all along
Rizi‚Äôs message to the LGBT community is twofold. First, be your authentic self‚ÄĒit‚Äôs the only way to inner peace and happiness. Second, if you are in search of a relationship with God, a spiritual path to unconditional love and acceptance does exist for you free from condemnation and negative judgement.
by Loren Cameron (1996)
Rating: 5 stars from 22 customer reviews
Body Alchemy: Transsexual Portraits is a unique and extraordinary photographic collection by artist Loren Cameron.¬† Body Alchemy is Loren Cameron’s intensely personal photo documentary of female-to-male transsexuals (FTMs).
A transsexual himself, Cameron brings a sensitive, sophisticated insider’s eye to his subject matter. Using documentary style, a series of before-and-after photographs documenting the transformation of a number of FTMs in Cameron’s transsexual community, his own striking self-portraits, and intimate autobiographical text, Loren invites the viewer to experience this transformational rite of passage. Loren Cameron’s work strikes a warm, familiar tone that invites the viewer’s participation – even when the subject matter is quite startling.
by Taste This (1998)
Rating: 4.5 stars from 17 customer reviews
Boys Like Her is a provocative collection of fiction and images from Taste This, a queer performance group including Anna Camilleri, Ivan Coyote, Zoe Eakle and Lyndell Mongomery.
Kate Bornstein provides an introduction. Boys Like Her is a road movie of young queer life.
Four distinct voices come together in a tag-team dialogue, interwoven with disturbingly beautiful photographs that echo their transformative energy.
Reading this book is like watching a circus troupe juggle a chainsaw, a grapefruit, a beach ball and a pocket watch without dropping a beat.¬† With identities ranging from boy-girl to power-femme to borderline testosterone-enhanced, these talented upstarts explore and explode gender, sex and family.¬†Gentleness is mixed with harsh honesty, as grandmother’s good advice jostles with hormone therapy, surviving the psych ward, rough play and lost love.
Each piece stands alone, together they are a conversation, a road movie of young queer life, rolling with the punches and taking the reader along for a ride to remember!
by William Roscoe (1998)
Rating: 4.5 stars from 9 customer reviews
In many Native American tribal societies, it was not uncommon for some men to live as women and some women to live as men. In this land, the original America, men who wore women‚Äôs clothes and did women‚Äôs work became artists, ambassadors, and religious leaders, and women sometimes became warriors, hunters and even chiefs. Same-sex marriages flourished.
Berdaches – individuals who combine male and female social roles with traits unique to their status as a third gender – have been documented in more than 150 North American tribes. By looking at this aspect of non-Western culture, Roscoe challenges the basis of the dualistic way most Americans think about sexuality, and shakes the foundation of the way we understand and define gender.
by Aaron Devor (1999)
Rating: 5 stars from 1 customer review
“This is the most comprehensive, professional book to date on FTM transsexualism and the many aspects of their life journeys. For its volume, this book is clearly understandable and reads without excessive use of scientific and academic rhetoric, thus making the book available to a broad audience.
It is nonjudgmental, nonsensational, and provocative in its honesty, interpretation, and challenge to the future of societal opinion regarding FTM gender identity.” ~ Journal of Sex
by Kate Bornstein (1994)
Rating: 4 stars from 44 customer reviews‚ÄúI know I‚Äôm not a man . . . and I‚Äôve come to the conclusion that I‚Äôm probably not a woman, either. . . . . The trouble is, we‚Äôre living in a world that insists we be one or the other.‚ÄĚ
With these words, Kate Bornstein ushers readers on a funny, fearless, and wonderfully scenic journey across the terrains of gender and identity.
On one level, Gender Outlaw details Bornstein‚Äôs transformation from heterosexual male to lesbian woman, from a one-time IBM salesperson to a playwright and performance artist. But this particular coming-of-age story is also a provocative investigation into our notions of male and female, from a self-described nonbinary transfeminine diesel femme dyke who never stops questioning our cultural assumptions.
Gender Outlaw was decades ahead of its time when it was first published in 1994. Now, some twenty-odd years later, this book stands as both a classic and a still-revolutionary work‚ÄĒone that continues to push us gently but profoundly to the furthest borders of the gender frontier.
by Jean Bobby Noble (2003)
Rating: 5 stars from 1 customer reviewIn this groundbreaking study, Jean Bobby Nobel maps historical similarities in fictional, cultural, and representational practices between the periods of modernism and postmodernism — from 1918 to 1999. Noble looks at nineteenth-century sexology, drama, and trial transcripts, and at late twentieth-century counter-cultural texts, popular film and documentaries, and theoretical texts.
Arguing that the masculine female figure that appears in the late twentieth-century culture and fiction has much in common with that of the late nineteenth century, she illustrates the ways in which both are represented through the same types of narratives, structures, and thematic techniques.
Among the twentieth-century fictions Noble analyzes most closely are texts that have been the focus of lesbian, queer, and feminist analysis: Radclyffe Hall’s The Well of Loneliness (1928), Leslie Feinberg’s Stone Butch Blues (1993), and the film Boys Don’t Cry (1999).
In addition, her study includes an analysis of Rose Tremain’s Sacred Country, a text that has never before been studies with the context of female masculinity.
Of interest to scholars and students with an interest in sexuality and gender studies, this book also makes a vital contribution to both literary criticism and cultural studies.
by Kate Bornstein (2013)
Rating: 3.5 stars from 32 customer reviewsGender isn’t just about “male” or “female” anymore – if you have any doubts, just turn on your television. RuPaul is as familiar as tomato ketchup with national radio and television shows, and transgendered folk are as common to talk-shows as screaming and yelling. But if the popularization of gender bending is revealing that “male” and “female” aren’t enough, where are we supposed to go from here?Cultural theorists have written loads of smart but difficult-to-fathom texts on gender, but none provide a hands-on, accessible guide to having your own unique gender. With My Gender Workbook, Kate Bornstein brings theory down to Earth and provides a practical approach to living with or without a gender.
Bornstein starts from the premise that there are not just two genders performed in today’s world, but countless genders lumped under the two-gender framework.
Using a unique, deceptively simple and always entertaining workbook format, Bornstein gently, but firmly, guides you to discover your own unique gender identity. Whether she’s using the USFDA’s food group triangle to explain gender, or quoting one-liners from real “gender transgressors”, Bornstein’s first and foremost concern is making information on gender bending truly accessible.
With quizzes and exercises that determine how much of a man or woman you are, My Gender Workbook gives you the tools to reach whatever point you desire on the gender continuum.
Bornstein also takes aim at the recent flurry of books that attempt to naturalize gender difference, and puts books like Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus squarely where they belong: on Uranus. If you don’t think you are transgendered when you sit down to read this book, you will be by the time you finish it!
by Pat Califia (1997)
Rating: 4 stars from 17 customer reviewsSex Changes: The Politics of Transgenderism is Califia’s meticulously researched book based on an astute reading of the available literature and in-depth interviews with gender transgressors who “opened their lives, minds, hearts, and bedrooms to the gaze of strangers.” Writing about both male-to-female and female-to-male transsexuals, Califia examines the lives of early transgender pioneers like Christine Jorgenson, Jan Morris, Renee Richards and Mark Rees, contemporary transgender activists like Leslie Feinberg and Kate Bornstein, and partners of transgendered people like Minnie Bruce Pratt. Califia scrutinizes feminist resistance to transsexuals occupying women’s space, the Christian Right’s backlash against transsexuals, and the appropriation of the berdache and other differently-gendered by gay historians to prove the universal existance of homosexuality. Finally, Sex Changes explores the future of gender.
by Anne Fausto-Sterling (2000)
Rating: 4.5 stars from 27 customer reviewsWhy do some people prefer heterosexual love while others fancy the same sex? Is sexual identity biologically determined or a product of convention? In this brilliant and provocative book, the acclaimed author of Myths of Gender argues that even the most fundamental knowledge about sex is shaped by the culture in which scientific knowledge is produced.Drawing on astonishing real-life cases and a probing analysis of centuries of scientific research, Fausto-Sterling demonstrates how scientists have historically politicized the body. In lively and impassioned prose, she breaks down three key dualisms – sex/gender, nature/nurture, and real/constructed – and asserts that individuals born as mixtures of male and female exist as one of five natural human variants and, as such, should not be forced to compromise their differences to fit a flawed societal definition of normality.
by Donna Troka, Kathleen Lebesco, Jean Noble (2003)Rating: 5 stars from 1 customer review
Dispelling the myth that drag kings are simply ‘women doing drag’, The Drag King Anthology presents enlightening essays that address gender, sexuality and feminism.Using prose, poetry and photographs, an eclectic mix of scholars, performers and fans offer cultural and political insights on the international growth and development of drag king troupes and communities.
by Mary Boenke (1999)
Rating: 4.5 stars from 15 customer reviews
Trans Forming Families: Real Stories About Trans-Gendered Loved Ones is a collection of stories by parents of adult transgenders, by mothers of very young gender variant children, by spouses and partners, and even by grandparents, siblings and friends. Written mostly by “ordinary people”, who have all struggled from bewilderment to acceptance and even celebration, these 31 stories serve as role models for all those families who are still hurting, rejecting, or feeling isolated — or who have already “arrived” –and would like company.
The subjects vary greatly, — both FTM’s and MTF’s, intersexed persons, cross-dressers, adults and children, several from other countries, some with physical disabilities, and from all walks of life. But all are stories of profound caring, stories of pioneering families who put love above all else and come out accepting, even celebrating the courage and specialness of their transgendered loved ones.
Several chapters include the following:
– A mother’s description of her “daughter’s” third birthday when the child is dismayed to find a lacy dress from her grandmother. She tells her mother she isn’t the kind of child who likes dresses (she hadn’t willingly worn one since age 2), and added, “Just tell grandma I’m a boy.” This child has persisted and is now a pre-teen, living full-time as a happy, athletic, and very bright boy.
– An Iranian mother’s story about her different, depressed and suicidal “son”, who was persistently abused outside the home. “He” was eventually correctly diagnosed in Iran, but was brought here for better resources and social acceptance. The former son is now living happily as a woman.
– A mother and father’s joint writing about their unhappy daughter, who eventually became their son — and an amusing story about his achieving a **legal** gay marriage (also Jewish/Catholic) in a state that does not allow even a postoperative transsexual to change his birth certificate.
– A long-term spouse writes that going through the transgender process with one’s spouse is often like going through the five stages of grief. She then vividly describes each stage –Denial, Anger, Bargaining, Depression, and finally Acceptance– and her invaluable learnings gained through a lengthy couseling process.
– A spouse in a long term marriage, which has parented ten children — two “home made” and eight special needs adopted children — writes of her spouses process from crossdresser, through ransition, to full-time womanhood. She also describes the humor of their situation; once while shopping, their Afro-American child ran after the white woman walking ahead shouting, “Hay, Daddy!”
– A fifteen year old English girl writes a letter to her “father”, telling him that she and her Mum have decided he should proceed with his transition because they know it’s important to him and they will adjust. But the school counselor doesn’t know anything about this kind of situation. “Please, Daddy, will you get me some help?” (She has written since publication that she and Emily are doing just fine.)
The book also includes a glossary, a current list of trans organizations and a trans-family reading list. Several essays, –an Introduction by Jessica Xavier, Foreword by Robert Berstein, and Preface by the editor about her own family experiences, –round out this highly informative book. The added short and humorous quips and butterflies flitting throughout make it an easy read. It is predicted to be a best seller within the trans community and is certainly ideal for families of all.
by Leslie Feinberg (1998)
Rating: 4 stars from 8 customer reviews
In this collection of speeches and new writing, Leslie Feinberg argues passionately for the acceptance of all trans peoples – and for the absolute necessity of building coalitions between all progressive political groups. Speaking to an audience of 350 male heterosexual crossdressers and their partners at the Texas “T” Party – a speech at which Feinberg was the only person dressed in a suit and tie – s/he notes the similarities between their struggles and the struggle of the gay, lesbian, and bi communities to break down the closet doors of shame and silence.
At the 7th Annual Queer Graduate Studies Conference s/he stresses the links between lesbian, gay, bi, and trans desires and the desire for education, food, and shelter. And always s/he calls for tolerance and respect – a call whose importance is brought home by the affecting self-portraits written by individuals from across the diverse trans spectrum.
Trans Liberation is a call to action for all those who care about civil rights and creating a just and equitable society.
With self-portraits by Gary Bowen, Cheryl Chase, Michael Hernandez, Craig Hickman, William (Peaches) Mason, Linda Phillips, Cynthia Phillips, Sylvia Rivera, Deirdre Sinnott (Al Dente), and Dragon Xcalibur.
by Dr. Elijah C. Nealy (2017)
To Be Released May 2, 2017
A comprehensive guide to the medical, emotional, and social issues of trans kids.
These days, it is practically impossible not to hear about some aspect of transgender life. Whether it is the bathroom issue in North Carolina, trans people in the military, or on television, trans life has become front and center after years of marginalization.
And kids are coming out as trans at younger and younger ages, which is a good thing for them.
But what written resources are available to parents, teachers, and mental health professionals who need to support these children?
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by M. Brown and C.A. Rounsley (2003)
Rating: 4.5 stars from 117 customer reviews
Combines authoritative information and humanitarian insight into the transsexual experience.
Filled with wisdom and understanding, this groundbreaking book paints a vivid portrait of conflicts transsexuals face on a daily basis–and the courage they must summon as they struggle to reveal their true being to themselves and others.
True Selves offers valuable guidance for those who are struggling to understand these people and their situations.